An Exposition on the Causes of Happiness and Suffering
Uttara Bhāga · Dharma-ācāra (Vrata, Śauca, Gṛhastha-nīti)
षष्ठ्यष्टमी ह्यमावास्या तुभयत्र चतुर्दशी ।। मैथुनं नाभिसेवेत द्वादश्यां च तथा प्रिये
ṣaṣṭhyaṣṭamī hy amāvāsyā tūbhayatra caturdaśī || maithunaṃ nābhiseveta dvādaśyāṃ ca tathā priye
ShaShThyaShTamI hyamAvAsyA tUbhayatra chaturdashI || maithunaM nAbhiseveta dvAdvashyAM cha tathA priye
چھٹی اور آٹھویں تِتھی، اماوسیا، اور دونوں پکشوں کی چودھویں تِتھی میں، اور اسی طرح دوادشی میں بھی، اے محبوبہ، جماع نہ کرے۔
Varāha
Attentive, concerned with dharmic regulation of desire
On which lunar days should householders restrain sexual activity to preserve purity and dharma?
Desire becomes dharmic when governed by time, restraint, and higher intention; sacred time disciplines the senses.
Householders can mark these tithis and treat them as days of increased japa, pūjā, and brahmacarya-like restraint to conserve attention and calm.
Varāha addresses Bhū Devī affectionately (‘priye’) while prescribing sexual restraint on specific tithis—protective, regulating instruction rather than physical interaction.
Avoid maithuna on ṣaṣṭhī, aṣṭamī, amāvāsyā, and caturdaśī in both fortnights, and also on dvādaśī.
Restraint supports śauca, vrata-strength, and mental steadiness; indulgence on prohibited tithis weakens merit and increases agitation/tamas.
Tithi-niyama (sexual restraint aligned to ṣaṣṭhī/aṣṭamī/amāvāsyā/caturdaśī/dvādaśī)
Specified tithis; month not specified; applies in both śukla and kṛṣṇa pakṣa for caturdaśī
Enhanced purity and efficacy of worship/vrata; steadier mind and improved spiritual outcomes.
Varāha Purāṇa 116.2.0 (jitendriya ideal); Varāha Purāṇa 116.3.0 (dvādaśī discipline)
It reflects a common Purāṇic and Dharmaśāstra pattern of regulating household conduct by lunar calendar observances (tithi-based discipline).
No geographic location is named in this verse.
Practicing restraint on specified lunar days as part of a disciplined religious-ethical regimen.
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