अयोध्याकाण्डे द्विषष्टितमः सर्गः · Kausalyā consoles Daśaratha; grief, remorse, and nightfall
नैषा हि सा स्त्री भवति श्लाघनीयेन धीमता ।
उभयोर्लोकयोर्वीर पत्या या सम्साद्यते ॥१३॥
naiṣā hi sā strī bhavati ślāghanīyena dhīmatā |
ubhayor lokayor vīra patyā yā saṃsādyate ||13||
Wahai pahlawan, seorang wanita yang perlu dipujuk oleh suaminya—meskipun suami itu bijaksana dan terpuji—tidaklah benar-benar memperoleh kesejahteraan di kedua-dua alam, di dunia ini dan di alam sana.
O heroic one! a woman, who is entreated by her sagacious and praiseworthy husband, loses both the worlds.
It expresses a traditional ideal of household dharma: harmony should not come through humiliating reversals where a virtuous spouse must plead to restore peace; dignity and mutual regard sustain moral order.
Kausalya explains her distress: being forced into a posture where the husband must placate her feels inauspicious and wrong to her.
Dasharatha’s praiseworthiness and wisdom are acknowledged, while Kausalya emphasizes the virtue of propriety and dignity in relationship roles.
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