Skanda Purana — Nagara Khanda, Shloka 22
श्राद्धे भुक्त्वाऽथ दत्त्वा वा श्राद्धं यो युद्धमाचरेत् । असंदिग्धं हि तच्छ्राद्धं स मन्दो व्यर्थतं नयेत्
śrāddhe bhuktvā'tha dattvā vā śrāddhaṃ yo yuddhamācaret | asaṃdigdhaṃ hi tacchrāddhaṃ sa mando vyarthataṃ nayet
جو شخص شرادھ میں کھا کر یا شرادھ دے کر اس کے بعد لڑائی جھگڑے میں پڑ جائے، تو بے شک اس کی وہ نادانی اس شرادھ کو رائیگاں کر دیتی ہے۔
Bhartṛyajña (Śrāddha-kalpa instruction)
Tirtha: Hāṭakeśvara-kṣetra
Type: kshetra
Listener: Pṛthivīpati/king
Scene: After a Śrāddha meal and gifting, a man rushes into a fight; the pitṛs’ receiving hands fade, symbolizing the rite’s fruit becoming ‘vyartha’. A calm brāhmaṇa gestures to stop the conflict.
FAQs
Violence and quarrel contradict the sanctity of ancestor rites and can nullify their fruit.
The instruction is embedded in the Hāṭakeśvara-kṣetra-māhātmya portion of Nāgara Khaṇḍa.
After participating in Śrāddha (as eater or donor), one should not engage in fighting or quarrels.