त्याज्यं कर्म पराधीनं कायमात्मवशं सदा । दुःखी यतः पराधीनः सदैवात्मवशः सुखी
tyājyaṃ karma parādhīnaṃ kāyamātmavaśaṃ sadā | duḥkhī yataḥ parādhīnaḥ sadaivātmavaśaḥ sukhī
وہ کام جو انسان کو دوسروں کا محتاج بنا دے، ترک کرنے کے لائق ہے؛ اپنی زندگی کو ہمیشہ اپنے قابو میں رکھو۔ کیونکہ محتاج آدمی دکھی رہتا ہے، اور خود پر حاکم شخص ہمیشہ خوش رہتا ہے۔
Skanda
Tirtha: Kāśī
Type: kshetra
Scene: A pilgrim-householder at a Kāśī ghat rejects a tempting but compromising offer from a powerful patron; he chooses a simple path, holding a japa-mālā, standing upright—symbol of self-mastery—while the Ganga flows steadily behind.
Happiness supports dharma when one lives with self-mastery; dependency that compromises integrity breeds sorrow.
No particular tīrtha is specified; the instruction appears within the Kāśī Khaṇḍa’s dharmic discourse.
A practical prescription is given: avoid livelihoods/actions that force unethical dependence; cultivate ātma-vaśa (self-control).