Ghuśmā–Sudehā: Jealousy, Household Honor, and the Ethics of Śaiva Merit (गुश्मा–सुदेहा प्रसङ्गः)
सुधर्म्मा गृहमागत्य वधूं पुत्रं विवाहितम् । उत्साहं दर्शयामास प्रियाभ्यां हर्षयन्निव
sudharmmā gṛhamāgatya vadhūṃ putraṃ vivāhitam | utsāhaṃ darśayāmāsa priyābhyāṃ harṣayanniva
Sudharmā returned home and, seeing his son married and the daughter-in-law present, displayed great enthusiasm, as though delighting those dear to him.
Suta Goswami
Tattva Level: pashu
It highlights dharmic household life (gṛhastha) as a supportive ground for Shaiva devotion—joy and harmony in family relations can become sattvic fuel for worship and pilgrimage-minded faith.
Though not explicitly mentioning the Liṅga here, the Kotirudra narrative frames worldly events within Shiva’s sacred order; a settled, dharmic home life enables steady Saguna Shiva worship—daily pūjā, vrata, and pilgrimage to Jyotirliṅgas.
The takeaway is to stabilize the mind through dharmic joy and then maintain regular Shiva-upāsanā—daily japa of the Pañcākṣarī (“Om Namaḥ Śivāya”) and simple home Liṅga-pūjā with purity and gratitude.