अभिज्ञानप्रदानम् — The Token of Recognition (Chūḍāmaṇi) and the Crow Episode Recalled
आसीनस्य च ते श्रान्ता पुनरुत्सङ्गमाविशम्।क्रुध्यन्ती च प्रहृष्टेन त्वयाऽहं परिसान्त्विता।।5.38.19।।
utkarṣantyāṃ ca raśanāṃ kruddhāyāṃ mayi pakṣiṇi |
srasyamāne ca vasane tato dṛṣṭā tvayā hy aham || 5.38.17 ||
As I angrily pulled up my waist-string while my garment was slipping because of that bird, then you saw me.
'Exhausted, I sat on your lap again. Seeing my angry face you pacified me. You were happy (to see me draw close).
Maryādā (propriety) and modesty are upheld even in distress; Sītā’s concern for decorum coexists with the need for protection.
During the crow’s harassment, Sītā’s clothing becomes disordered; Rāma notices her in that vulnerable moment.
Sītā’s modesty and self-respect—virtues traditionally associated with inner discipline, not weakness.