Satī at Dakṣa’s Sacrifice: Condemnation of Blasphemy and Voluntary Departure by Yoga-Fire
अरुद्रभागं तमवेक्ष्य चाध्वरं पित्रा च देवे कृतहेलनं विभौ । अनादृता यज्ञसदस्यधीश्वरी चुकोप लोकानिव धक्ष्यती रुषा ॥ ९ ॥
arudra-bhāgaṁ tam avekṣya cādhvaraṁ pitrā ca deve kṛta-helanaṁ vibhau anādṛtā yajña-sadasy adhīśvarī cukopa lokān iva dhakṣyatī ruṣā
In the sacrificial arena Satī saw that no oblation was set aside for Rudra, and she understood that her father had slighted the all-powerful Lord Śiva; moreover, Dakṣa did not even honor her. Thus Satī, presiding over the yajña assembly, blazed with anger and looked upon her father as if to burn him with her eyes.
By offering oblations in the fire while chanting the Vedic mantra svāhā, one offers respect to all the demigods, great sages and Pitās, including Lord Brahmā, Lord Śiva and Lord Viṣṇu. It is customary that Śiva is one of those who are offered respects, but Satī, while personally present in the arena, saw that the brāhmaṇas did not utter the mantra offering oblations to Lord Śiva, namaḥ śivāya svāhā. She was not sorry for herself, for she was ready to come to her father’s house without being invited, but she wanted to see whether or not her husband was being respected. To see her relatives, her sisters and mother, was not so important; even when she was received by her mother and sisters she did not care, for she was most concerned that her husband was being insulted in the sacrifice. When she marked the insult, she became greatly angry, and she looked at her father so angrily that Dakṣa appeared to burn in her vision.
Daksha, out of envy and pride, arranged the sacrifice without offering Rudra (Shiva) his due portion, using the ritual setting to publicly slight him.
Sati saw her father disrespect the powerful Lord Shiva and exclude him from the sacrifice; feeling both dishonored and pained by the offense to her husband, she erupted in wrath.
Do not use social or religious platforms to belittle others—especially saintly persons; disrespect (aparadha) poisons relationships and destroys the spiritual value of one’s “good works.”