कामबन्धन-निवृत्ति तथा शान्तिलक्षण-उपदेशः | Release from Desire-Bondage and the Marks of Peace
वृद्धबालातुरैर्वेद्यैज्ञातिसम्बन्धिबान्धवै: । मातापितृभ्यां जामीकभ्ि भ्रात्रा पुत्रेण भार्यया
vṛddha-bāla-āturaiḥ vaidyaiḥ jñāti-sambandhi-bāndhavaiḥ | mātā-pitṛbhyāṃ jāmikabhi bhrātrā putreṇa bhāryayā ||
毗耶娑说:居家之人当恒爱己妻,调伏诸根,不于他人之德中求其过。祭司与主祭者、师长、外舅、宾客、来投者、老人、孩童、病者、医者、同社同族之人、亲戚与友盟、父母、家中妇女、兄弟、儿子、妻子、女儿以及仆从,皆不可与之争端。能舍弃与此等众人的争吵者,便脱离一切罪。
व्यास उवाच
The verse teaches gṛhastha-dharma: cultivate love and fidelity within marriage, practice sense-restraint (becoming jitendriya), refrain from fault-finding, and renounce quarrels—especially with those who deserve protection, respect, or care (elders, children, the sick, guests, teachers, parents, and dependents). Such restraint and harmony are presented as a means to freedom from sin.
In Śānti Parva’s instruction on dharma after the war, Vyāsa delivers ethical guidance. Here he lists categories of people with whom a householder should not contend, emphasizing social and familial concord as a practical discipline leading to moral purification.