Srimad Bhagavatam — Saptama Skandha, Shloka 4
Nārada’s Instructions: Śrāddha, True Dharma, Contentment, Yoga, and Devotion-Centered Renunciation
देशकालोचितश्रद्धाद्रव्यपात्रार्हणानि च । सम्यग्भवन्ति नैतानि विस्तरात्स्वजनार्पणात् ॥ ४ ॥
deśa-kālocita-śraddhā- dravya-pātrārhaṇāni ca samyag bhavanti naitāni vistarāt sva-janārpaṇāt
在施行施罗达（śrāddha）仪式时，若安排供养许多婆罗门或亲族，便会在时地、虔信、供品、受供者的资格以及供奉方式上出现差错与不周。
Nārada Muni has prohibited unnecessarily gorgeous arrangements to feed relatives or brāhmaṇas during the śrāddha ceremony. Those who are materially opulent spend lavishly during this ceremony. Indians spend especially lavishly on three occasions — at the birth of a child, at marriage and while observing the śrāddha ceremony — but the śāstras prohibit the excessive expenditures involved in inviting many brāhmaṇas and relatives, especially during the śrāddha ceremony.
FAQs
This verse teaches that charity and honoring become truly successful only when the recipient is qualified and the giving is appropriate to time, place, and sincere faith—not merely when the gift is extravagant.
Prahlada emphasizes that dharmic giving is measured by propriety and worthiness, not by show or attachment; giving only to relatives can become nepotism rather than spiritually purifying charity.
Give thoughtfully: choose trustworthy and deserving recipients, give within your means, align with the real need of the time and place, and avoid donation driven mainly by display or favoritism.