Srimad Bhagavatam — Ekadasha Skandha, Shloka 18
Nimi Questions the Yogendras: Māyā, Cosmic Dissolution, Guru-Śaraṇāgati, Bhakti, and Deity Worship
श्रीप्रबुद्ध उवाच कर्माण्यारभमाणानां दु:खहत्यै सुखाय च । पश्येत् पाकविपर्यासं मिथुनीचारिणां नृणाम् ॥ १८ ॥
śrī-prabuddha uvāca karmāṇy ārabhamāṇānāṁ duḥkha-hatyai sukhāya ca paśyet pāka-viparyāsaṁ mithunī-cāriṇāṁ nṛṇām
圣者普罗布达说：众生执取男女之分而结于欲爱，为灭苦增乐而不断造作世间事业；然当观其果报颠倒——乐必消散，年岁渐长，物质不安与苦恼反而增长。
Without the mercy of a pure devotee it is exceedingly difficult to free oneself from the bodily concept of life, which is the illusory basis of sexual attraction.
FAQs
This verse says that people often begin actions hoping to end suffering and gain happiness, but the results frequently ripen in the opposite way—producing more distress—especially when life is centered on sensual/sexual absorption.
Because absorption in sense pleasure tends to bind one to repeated karmic reactions, anxieties, and disappointments—so the promised “happiness” commonly matures into its opposite, increased bondage and suffering.
Before chasing pleasure-driven goals, examine long-term outcomes: if a habit repeatedly increases anxiety, dependence, or dissatisfaction, recognize it as a reversed result and redirect effort toward self-control, devotion, and lasting well-being.