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Shloka 37

Dāyavibhāga (Inheritance Apportionment) and Household Precedence — Dialogue of Yudhiṣṭhira and Bhīṣma

समीक्ष्य च बहून्‌ दोषान्‌ संवासाद्‌ विद्धि पाणयो: । यथा निष्ठाकरं शुल्क न जात्वासीत्‌ तथा शूणु

samīkṣya ca bahūn doṣān saṃvāsād viddhi pāṇayoḥ | yathā niṣṭhākaraṃ śulkaṃ na jātva āsīt tathā śṛṇu ||

Bhīṣma nói: “Hãy suy xét kỹ những lỗi lầm muôn mặt phát sinh khi coi hôn nhân chỉ là sự chung sống được bảo đảm bằng tiền bạc. Hãy biết rằng một ‘khoản phí’ tự nó không thể làm cho hôn sự trở thành quyết định cuối cùng. Thuở xưa, tập tục ấy chưa từng được chấp nhận như một chuẩn mực cố định—hãy nghe ta giảng giải.”

{'samīkṣya''having examined, after considering carefully', 'bahūn': 'many', 'doṣān': 'faults, moral defects, harmful consequences', 'saṃvāsāt': 'from cohabitation
{'samīkṣya':
from living together (as the defining basis)', 'viddhi''know, understand', 'pāṇayoḥ': 'of the two hands
from living together (as the defining basis)', 'viddhi':
idiomatically connected with pāṇigraha (the taking of the bride’s hand in marriage)', 'yathā''as, in such a way that', 'niṣṭhākaraṃ': 'bringing finality/settlement
idiomatically connected with pāṇigraha (the taking of the bride’s hand in marriage)', 'yathā':
making a matter firmly concluded', 'śulkam''price, fee, bride-price (payment connected with marriage)', 'na': 'not', 'jātva': 'ever, at any time', 'āsīt': 'was', 'tathā': 'thus, in that manner', 'śṛṇu': 'listen'}
making a matter firmly concluded', 'śulkam':

भीष्य उवाच

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Bhīṣma

Educational Q&A

Bhīṣma warns that treating marriage as a transaction—where payment is assumed to finalize the union—creates serious moral and social defects. A legitimate marriage is grounded in dharma and proper rites/consent, not merely in money or cohabitation.

In Anuśāsana Parva, Bhīṣma is instructing on dharma. Here he addresses the issue of ‘buying and selling’ a maiden (kanyā-kraya-vikraya), urging careful reflection on its faults and stating that a paid ‘fee’ has never been a valid basis for conclusively establishing marriage.