An Exposition on the Causes of Happiness and Suffering
Pūrva Bhāga · Dharma–Nīti (Householder Conduct and Sexual Ethics)
देवतेव सदा पश्येत् ततः सौख्यतरं नु किम् ॥ ऋतुकाले तु यो गच्छेन्मासेमासे च मैथुनम् ॥
devateva sadā paśyet tataḥ saukhyataraṃ nu kim | ṛtukāle tu yo gacchen māse māse ca maithunam ||
devateva sadA pashyettataH saukhyataraM nu kim || RRitukAle tu yo gachChenmAsemAse cha maithunam
और बड़ी खुशी क्या है? माँ बाप को भगवान जैसा समझो। और एक बात, गृहस्थ में रह के भी नियम फ़ॉलो करो। सिर्फ सही टाइम पर ही बीवी के पास जाओ, महीने में एक बार।
Varāha
Sukha arises when kāma is subordinated to dharma through reverence and seasonal restraint.
Treat spouse with devatā-bhāva; observe ṛtu-kāla discipline and avoid impulsive/compulsive sexuality.
Gṛhastha should revere the spouse as divine and regulate maithuna to ṛtu-kāla (fertile season) with disciplined periodicity.
Regulated sense-life supports sukha, steadiness, and dhārmic household prosperity; indulgence/irregularity leads to restlessness and decline of dharma.
Varāha Purāṇa 116.45–46 (single-minded worship and its fruit); Varāha Purāṇa 116.116 (nīti on decline without refuge in Bhagavān)
It reflects household-regulation norms found across Dharma literature, indicating how Purāṇic texts transmit social ethics alongside devotional language.
No geographic location is identified.
Maintain respectful regard and practice restraint through regulated household conduct.
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