Pātra-Nirṇaya and Ritual Procedure: Who to Feed, Who to Avoid, and Step-by-Step Śrāddha Performance
विसर्जयेत् प्रीतिवचः सन्मानाभ्यर्चितांस् ततः निवर्तेताभ्यनुज्ञात आद्वारात् तान् अनुव्रजेत्
visarjayet prītivacaḥ sanmānābhyarcitāṃs tataḥ nivartetābhyanujñāta ādvārāt tān anuvrajet
Then, having honored them with due respect, he should dismiss them with affectionate words; and, once they have granted leave, he should return—yet accompany them as far as the doorway.
Sage Parāśara (in instruction to Maitreya)
Concept: Atithi-satkāra is completed by respectful leave-taking and escorting guests to the doorway, expressing dharma through embodied courtesy.
Vedantic Theme: Dharma
Application: Conclude hospitality with gratitude and a few steps of accompaniment; let social interaction be governed by maryādā rather than convenience.
Vishishtadvaita: Dharma as service to beings (śeṣa-bhāva) reflects honoring the Lord’s order through honoring His dependents.
Bhakti Type: Dasya
This verse frames hospitality as dharma enacted through speech and action—honor the guest, speak kindly, and accompany them to the door, preserving social harmony and merit.
Parāśara presents gṛhastha-dharma as disciplined civility: respectful reception, affectionate words at departure, and escorting the guest appropriately, without overstepping once leave is granted.
In the Vishnu Purana, dharma is sustained by the Supreme Lord’s order; practicing refined hospitality becomes a lived alignment with that sustaining sovereignty, reflecting devotion through conduct.