Pātra-Nirṇaya and Ritual Procedure: Who to Feed, Who to Avoid, and Step-by-Step Śrāddha Performance
मातामहानाम् अप्य् एवं सह देवैः क्रमः स्मृतः भोजने च स्वशक्त्या च दाने तद्वद् विसर्जने
mātāmahānām apy evaṃ saha devaiḥ kramaḥ smṛtaḥ bhojane ca svaśaktyā ca dāne tadvad visarjane
In the same manner, the established order is remembered for the maternal grandfathers as well, together with the gods: in feeding, in giving according to one’s capacity, and likewise in the concluding dismissal.
Sage Parāśara (teaching Maitreya)
Speaker: Parasara
Topic: Extension of śrāddha order to maternal ancestors (mātāmahas) along with devas: feeding, giving, and dismissal in proper sequence
Teaching: Ethical
Quality: comprehensive
Concept: The same remembered ritual order applies to maternal grandfathers as well, together with the devas, in feeding, gifting according to capacity, and concluding dismissal.
Vedantic Theme: Dharma
Application: Practice equitable gratitude—honor both paternal and maternal lines without neglect, and give responsibly within means.
Vishishtadvaita: Household dharma is a network of relations (śeṣa-śeṣi): honoring kin and devas reflects the soul’s relational dependence within the Lord’s body (jagat as His śarīra).
Bhakti Type: Dasya
This verse affirms that the maternal line is honored through the same prescribed sequence as other ancestral recipients, integrating them into the ritual order alongside the devas.
He emphasizes svaśaktyā—gifts should be offered according to one’s means—so the rite remains dharmic and sustainable rather than burdensome or performative.
In the Vishnu Purana’s framework, maintaining dharma through correct ritual order and ethical giving supports cosmic harmony ultimately grounded in Vishnu as the sustaining Supreme Reality.