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Shloka 5.22.42

रावणस्य तर्जनं सीताया धर्मोक्तिः (Ravana’s Threats and Sita’s Dharma-Centered Reply)

अकामां कामयानस्य शरीरमुपतप्यते।।5.22.42।।इच्छन्तीं कामयानस्य प्रीतिर्भवति शोभना।

akāmāṃ kāmayānasya śarīram upatapyate |

icchantīṃ kāmayānasya prītir bhavati śobhanā ||

When a desirous man pursues a woman without desire, his very body is only tormented; but when he pursues a willing woman, the pleasure that arises is truly fitting.

D
Dhānyamālinī
R
Rāvaṇa
S
Sītā (implied as akāmā)

It states a dharmic norm for desire: coercion against the unwilling yields only suffering and is unfitting; mutual willingness is the proper basis for pleasure.

Dhānyamālinī argues against Rāvaṇa’s forced pursuit of Sītā by contrasting unwillingness with willing consent.

Restraint and discernment in kāma—recognizing that ethical conduct requires respecting another’s will.