Shloka 17
Śikhaṇḍinī’s Marriage Arrangement and the Daśārṇa Envoy’s Accusation (शिखण्डिनी-विवाह-विप्रलम्भ-प्रसङ्गः)
एवं संभाषमाणौ तु दृष्टया शोकपरायणौ । शिखण्डिनी तदा कन्या व्रीडितेव तपस्विनी,इन दोनोंको इस प्रकार शोकमग्न होकर बातचीत करते देख उनकी तपस्विनी पुत्री शिखण्डिनी लज्जित-सी होकर इस प्रकार चिन्ता करने लगी--'ये मेरे माता और पिता दोनों मेरे ही कारण दुःखी हो रहे हैं।। ऐसा सोचकर उसने प्राण त्याग देनेका विचार किया
evaṁ saṁbhāṣamāṇau tu dṛṣṭvā śokaparāyaṇau | śikhaṇḍinī tadā kanyā vrīḍiteva tapasvinī ||
Bhishma said: Seeing her parents conversing in this way, wholly given over to grief, their daughter Śikhaṇḍinī—an ascetic-minded maiden—felt as though overcome with shame. Reflecting that both her mother and father were suffering because of her, she turned inward in distress and conceived the thought of giving up her life.
भीष्म उवाच
Educational Q&A
The verse highlights the ethical weight of perceived responsibility within a family: when one believes others suffer because of oneself, shame and compassion can drive extreme thoughts. It implicitly invites discernment—grief and honor-culture pressures can distort judgment, and dharma requires steadiness rather than impulsive self-destruction.
Bhishma narrates that Shikhandini sees her parents speaking while overwhelmed by sorrow. Feeling ashamed and thinking their suffering is caused by her, she becomes distressed and considers abandoning her life.