यथा वानुग्रहापेक्षं वश्यं तिष्ठेत्तथा चरेत् ॥ कZ_०७.१८.३३च्द् ॥
yathā vānugrahāpekṣaṃ vaśyaṃ tiṣṭhettathā caret
He should act so that the other remains compliant and dependent upon his favor.
To structure relations so the counterpart needs your support, making obedience the rational choice.