प्रीणनं लालनं पोषं रंजनं मार्दवं दयाम् । कृत्वा वधूमुपगमेद्युवतीं प्रेमवान्पतिः । युवतौ कुसुमे चैव विधेयं सुखमिच्छता
prīṇanaṃ lālanaṃ poṣaṃ raṃjanaṃ mārdavaṃ dayām | kṛtvā vadhūmupagamedyuvatīṃ premavānpatiḥ | yuvatau kusume caiva vidheyaṃ sukhamicchatā
Ein liebender Gatte soll, nachdem er sie erfreut, umsorgt, genährt, entzückt und ihr Sanftmut und Mitgefühl erwiesen hat, sich dann seiner jungen Braut nähern. Wer Glück begehrt, handle an einer jungen Frau wie an einer Blume—behutsam und zart.
Rājñī (the Queen, concluding instruction by context)
Listener: king (and by extension householders)
Scene: A husband offers ornaments/garlands, gently attending to his bride; the flower metaphor appears visually—he holds a lotus or jasmine, mirroring the delicacy with which he approaches her.
Happiness in married life arises from tenderness, care, and compassion—never from coercion.
No tīrtha is glorified; the verse teaches gṛhastha-dharma (householder ethics).
No formal rite is prescribed; it prescribes dharmic conduct (gentleness, care) as an ethical discipline.