Srimad Bhagavatam — Panchama Skandha, Shloka 18
The Forest of Material Existence (Saṁsāra-vana) and the Delivering Path of Bharata’s Teachings
क्वचिद् गृहाश्रमकर्मचोदनातिभरगिरिमारुरुक्षमाणो लोकव्यसनकर्षितमना: कण्टकशर्कराक्षेत्रं प्रविशन्निव सीदति ॥ १८ ॥
kvacid gṛhāśrama-karma-codanāti-bhara-girim ārurukṣamāṇo loka-vyasana-karṣita-manāḥ kaṇṭaka-śarkarā-kṣetraṁ praviśann iva sīdati.
In household life one is ordered to execute many yajñas and fruitive activities, especially the vivāha-yajña [the marriage ceremony for sons and daughters] and the sacred thread ceremony. These are all the duties of a gṛhastha, and they are very extensive and troublesome to execute. They are compared to a big hill over which one must cross when one is attached to material activities. A person desiring to cross over these ritualistic ceremonies certainly feels pains like the piercing of thorns and pebbles endured by one attempting to climb a hill. Thus the conditioned soul suffers unlimitedly.
There are many social functions for keeping a prestigious position in society. In different countries and societies there are various festivals and rituals. In India, the father is supposed to get his children married. When he does so, his responsibility to the family is complete. Arranging marriages is very difficult, especially in these days. At the present moment no one can perform the proper ritual of sacrifice, nor can anyone afford to pay for the marriage ceremony of sons and daughters. Therefore householders are very much distressed when they are confronted by these social duties. It is as though they were pierced by thorns and hurt by pebbles. Material attachment is so strong that despite the suffering, one cannot give it up. Prahlāda Mahārāja therefore recommends ( Bhāg. 7.5.5 ):
FAQs
This verse depicts household-driven fruitive duties as a mountain-like weight that drags the mind into worldly distress, like entering a thorny, stony field.
He is using allegory to show that worldly pursuits injure and exhaust the conditioned soul—small desires and obligations repeatedly cause pain and obstruction on the path to peace.
Reduce fruitive obsession and re-center duties as service to Bhagavān—simplify desires, cultivate sādhana, and prioritize bhakti so responsibilities don’t become crushing burdens.