Ārjava, Satya, and the Virocana–Sudhanvan Exemplum
Udyoga-parva 35
अनवाप्यं च शोकेन शरीरं चोपतप्यते । अमित्राश्ष प्रहष्यन्ति मा सम शोके मन: कृथा:
anavāpyaṃ ca śokena śarīraṃ copatapyate | amitrāś ca praharṣyanti mā sma śoke manaḥ kṛthāḥ ||
毗度罗说道:“以悲伤不能得未得之物;悲伤只会灼伤身躯,使仇敌欢喜。因此,莫令汝心沉溺于哀恸。”
विदुर उवाच
Grief does not recover what is lost or bring what is unattained; it only harms one’s body and composure, while giving satisfaction to adversaries. The ethical counsel is to practice restraint and clarity of mind in adversity.
In Udyoga Parva, Vidura offers sober, practical counsel meant to steady the listener during a tense political crisis leading toward war. Here he warns against indulgent sorrow and urges mental firmness.