Shloka 24
Kṣemadarśa–Kālakavṛkṣīya Saṃvāda: Counsel on Impermanence, Non-attachment, and Composure in Dispossession
न च त्वमिव शोचन्ति तस्मात् त्वमपि मा शुच: । किं न त्वं तैनरे: श्रेयांस्तुल्यो वा बुद्धिपौरुषै:
na ca tvam iva śocanti tasmāt tvam api mā śucaḥ | kiṁ na tvaṁ tair nareḥ śreyān tulyo vā buddhi-pauruṣaiḥ ||
毗湿摩说道：“他人并不如你这般悲伤，故你亦不当悲伤。难道你在智慧与刚毅的奋发上不与那些人相等，甚至更胜一筹吗？即便不富者亦能存活，有些还治理邦国；其中有人在明断与勇武上与你相等，有人更为卓越。然而他们并不如你这般沉沦于忧苦。故当舍弃悲恸。”
भीष्म उवाच
Educational Q&A
Bhīṣma urges restraint over grief: sorrow is not a mark of wisdom or strength. One should measure oneself by buddhi (discernment) and pauruṣa (steadfast effort) and, like capable people who continue living and ruling despite hardship, cultivate composure and proceed with duty.
In Śānti Parva, Bhīṣma instructs and consoles the listener (the king seeking guidance after the war). Here he rebukes excessive lamentation, pointing out that many people—some equal or superior in intellect and valor—endure life’s conditions without collapsing into grief; thus the addressee should also abandon sorrow.