Shloka 34
Dāyavibhāga (Inheritance Apportionment) and Household Precedence — Dialogue of Yudhiṣṭhira and Bhīṣma
क्योंकि इस प्रकार जो कन्याके लिये आभूषण लेकर कन्यादान किया जाता है, वह न तो मूल्य है और न विक्रय ही; इसलिये कन्याके लिये कोई वस्तु स्वीकार करके कन्याका दान करना सनातन धर्म है ।।
bhīṣma uvāca | evaṃ hi yā kanyāyāḥ kṛte bhūṣaṇāni gṛhītvā kanyādānaṃ kriyate, na tat mūlyaṃ na ca vikrayaḥ; tasmāt kanyāyāḥ kṛte kiñcid vastu pratigṛhya kanyādānaṃ sanātano dharmaḥ || dāsyāmi bhavate kanyām iti pūrvaṃ na bhāṣitam | ye cāhuyeṃ ca nāhuyeṃ ye cāvaśyaṃ vadanty uta, teṣāṃ sarveṣāṃ vacanāni kanyā-dānāt pūrvaṃ na uktavat-tulyāni ||
毗湿摩说：在嫁女之时收受首饰，既非“价金”，亦非“买卖”；因此，为女子按习俗受取些许赠礼而后出嫁，被视为古老的达摩法则。然而“我将把女儿许配给你”之语，不应当作预先已牢固约定：无论人们对不同求婚者说“我会给”，或说“我不给”，甚至说“我必定给”，凡此种种，在真正完成交付女子之举以前，都被看作并非确实具有约束力。
भीष्य उवाच
Educational Q&A
Bhishma distinguishes customary marriage gifts (like ornaments for the bride) from a commercial sale: accepting such items does not make the maiden a commodity. He also teaches that verbal assurances about giving a daughter are not fully binding until the formal act of kanyādāna is actually performed.
In Anushasana Parva, Bhishma is instructing Yudhishthira on dharma. Here he addresses norms around marriage arrangements: what counts as legitimate customary giving, and how to evaluate spoken promises about giving a maiden before the marriage rite is completed.