Uddhava Meets the Gopīs: Bhramara-gītā and Kṛṣṇa’s Message of Separation
कथं रतिविशेषज्ञ: प्रियश्च पुरयोषिताम् । नानुबध्येत तद्वाक्यैर्विभ्रमैश्चानुभाजित: ॥ ४१ ॥
kathaṁ rati-viśeṣa-jñaḥ priyaś ca pura-yoṣitām nānubadhyeta tad-vākyair vibhramaiś cānubhājitaḥ
圣克里希纳精通情爱诸般妙法,又是城中女子的心上人;当她们以迷人的言语与姿态不断奉爱礼敬时,他怎能不被牵缠?
According to Śrīdhara Svāmī, each of these verses is spoken by a different gopī.
This verse shows the gopīs’ intense viraha-bhakti: they measure Kṛṣṇa’s actions through love, wondering how He could reciprocate with city women yet not be bound—revealing the depth of their exclusive devotion.
While hearing Uddhava’s message, the gopīs—especially Rādhā—express wounded love and longing, contrasting their own total surrender with Kṛṣṇa’s apparent dealings in Mathurā/Dvārakā.
It teaches discernment about attachment: worldly charm can bind the mind, but divine love aims at selfless devotion—seek relationships and commitments that deepen integrity, service, and remembrance of God.