आच्छेदनाददानाद्वा दत्त्वा वाप्यवमानितम् ॥ कZ_०८.५.२५च्द् ॥
ācchedanād adānād vā dattvā vāpy avamānitam
无论是夺取、拒绝给予,还是即便给予之后又加以羞辱——这些行为都会使伙伴离心。
Because insult converts a transactional dispute into a status conflict, making reconciliation harder and defection more likely.