अननुरूपं भवतः इत्युपालम्भः ॥ कZ_०२.१०.३१ ॥
ananurūpaṃ bhavataḥ ity upālambhaḥ
“这不符合你的身份(不适合你)”——这是责难(非难/抱怨)。
It leverages status and reputation: the target is nudged to comply to preserve honor and social legitimacy.