एकोनचत्वारिंशः सर्गः · Dasaratha’s Lament, Sumantra’s Commission, and Sita’s Vow of Marital Dharma
Addressed to SitaSetting: Ayodhya (palace discourse context)
असत्य स्सर्वलोकेऽस्मिन्सततं सत्कृताः प्रियैः ।
भर्तारं नानुमन्यन्ते विनिपातगतं स्त्रियः ॥२०॥
asatyaḥ sarvaloke ’smin satataṁ satkṛtāḥ priyaiḥ |
bhartāraṁ nānumanyante vinipātagataṁ striyaḥ ||20||
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Those women who, although always gratified, do not follow their husband when they fall into misfortune, are regarded as unfaithful.
Fidelity is tested not in prosperity but in calamity; social dharma condemns abandonment at the moment of a spouse’s fall.
For householders: reflection on steadfastness (niṣṭhā) and shared endurance; transforming relationship into a field of dharma-practice.
Worldly praise/blame (loka-vyavahāra) as a shifting measure; the verse foregrounds social dharma rather than ultimate truth.
Rāmacaritamānasa Araṇyakāṇḍa (Sītā’s steadfast following as ideal; thematic parallel); Mahābhārata (Sāvitrī narrative in Vana/Āraṇyaka traditions: wife’s fidelity in adversity; thematic parallel); Purāṇic pativratā exempla (e.g., Anasūyā, Arundhatī motifs; thematic parallel)
Dharmaśāstra discourse on strī-dharma and pativratā ideals
Ayodhyākāṇḍa: Sītā’s insistence on accompanying Rāma to the forest (contrastive exemplum)
Anuṣṭup
Commanding
Tāra (high register)
It asserts the Dharma-ideal of steadfast companionship: loyalty is tested not in comfort but in adversity, and abandoning a spouse in misfortune is framed as a breach of truthfulness/faith (satya).
In the context of Rāma’s exile, Sītā is being addressed with traditional counsel about a wife’s conduct, emphasizing constancy toward one’s husband during hardship.
The virtue of fidelity and unwavering commitment (niṣṭhā) in marital duty is emphasized as the expected ideal.
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