Vānaprastha-vidhi and Sannyāsa-dharma: Austerity, Detachment, and the Paramahaṁsa Ideal
ब्रह्मचर्यं तप: शौचं सन्तोषो भूतसौहृदम् । गृहस्थस्याप्यृतौ गन्तु: सर्वेषां मदुपासनम् ॥ ४३ ॥
brahmacaryaṁ tapaḥ śaucaṁ santoṣo bhūta-sauhṛdam gṛhasthasyāpy ṛtau gantuḥ sarveṣāṁ mad-upāsanam
Người gia chủ chỉ nên gần gũi vợ vào thời kỳ được quy định để sinh con; ngoài ra hãy thực hành phạm hạnh, khổ hạnh, thanh tịnh thân tâm, an túc trong vị trí của mình và hữu nghị với mọi loài. Sự thờ phụng Ta phải được mọi người thực hành, không phân biệt varṇa hay āśrama.
Sarveṣāṁ mad-upāsanam indicates that all followers of the varṇāśrama system must worship Lord Kṛṣṇa or risk falling down from their position. As stated in Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam (11.5.3) , na bhajanty avajānanti sthānād bhraṣṭāḥ patanty adhaḥ: even though one may be advanced in the performance of Vedic rituals and customs, without worshiping the Supreme Lord one will certainly fall down.
This verse lists brahmacarya (chastity), austerity, purity, contentment, and friendliness to all beings as universal disciplines, supporting spiritual life and devotion.
It states that for householders, conjugal union is permitted only in the proper, regulated time (ṛtau), implying restraint and dharmic regulation rather than indulgence.
Adopt cleanliness and contentment, practice restraint in sense pleasures (especially sexuality), cultivate kindness to all beings, and make regular worship of Kṛṣṇa the core of daily life.