विभीषणोपदेशे रावणस्य परुषवाक्यम्
Ravana’s Harsh Reply to Vibhishana’s Counsel
यथापुष्करपत्रेषुपतितास्तोयबिन्दवः ।नश्लेषमभिगच्छन्तितथाऽनार्येषुसङ्गतम् ।।।।
yathā puṣkara-patreṣu patitās toya-bindavaḥ | na śleṣam abhigacchanti tathā 'nāryeṣu saṅgatam || 6.16.11 ||
جیسے کنول کے پتّوں پر گرے ہوئے پانی کے قطرے چمٹتے نہیں، ویسے ہی کمینوں کے ساتھ میل جول میں نہ حقیقی وابستگی پیدا ہوتی ہے نہ پائیدار دوستی۔
"Just as drops of water that fall on lotus leaves do not adhere to each other, like wise however long you spend with an unworthy (relative) one, good friendship does not take place."
The teaching (though spoken harshly) aligns with a nīti idea: lasting friendship requires virtue; without dharmic character, association remains superficial and unreliable.
Rāvaṇa insults Vibhīṣaṇa by implying that no genuine bond forms with the ‘unworthy,’ using a lotus-leaf simile.
By contrast, the epic values steadfast friendship grounded in virtue and truth; the verse highlights how contempt and pride corrode kinship.