Gautama’s Flight, the Enchanted Grove, and the Arrival of Rājadharma
Nāḍījaṅgha
कल्याणं कुरुते बाढं धीमान् न ग्लायते क्वचित् । प्रशान्तवाड्मना नित्यं ह्ीस्तु धर्मादवाप्यते
kalyāṇaṁ kurute bāḍhaṁ dhīmān na glāyate kvacit | praśāntavāḍmanā nityaṁ hrīst(u) dharmād avāpyate ||
جو دانا مرد دلجمعی سے دوسروں کی بھلائی کرتا ہے اور کبھی دل شکستہ نہیں ہوتا، جس کا دل و زبان ہمیشہ پرسکون رہتے ہیں—وہی “ہری” (حیا و وقار کی ضبط) والا کہلاتا ہے۔ یہ صفتِ ہری دھرم کے عمل سے حاصل ہوتی ہے۔
भीष्म उवाच
True modesty (hrī) is not mere shyness; it is a moral restraint that arises from living by dharma. The wise person actively promotes others’ welfare, remains free from dejection, and maintains calmness in mind and speech.
In the Śānti Parva’s instruction on righteous living, Bhīṣma continues advising Yudhiṣṭhira by defining the marks and source of the virtue called hrī (modesty/restraint), linking it to beneficent action, inner composure, and dharmic practice.