Sapindīkaraṇa: Timing, Eligibility, Gotra Rules, and Yearlong Śrāddha
with Vṛṣotsarga and Ghaṭa-dāna
एवं न कुरुते नारी धर्मोढा पतिसंगमम् / जन्मजन्मनि दुः खार्तादुः शीलाप्रियवादिनी
evaṃ na kurute nārī dharmoḍhā patisaṃgamam / janmajanmani duḥ khārtāduḥ śīlāpriyavādinī
Assim, a mulher que, alegando estar presa ao “dharma”, negligencia o dever conjugal não se une ao marido; de nascimento em nascimento, é afligida pela dor—de má conduta, embora de fala doce por fora.
Lord Vishnu (in discourse to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Afterlife Stage: Pretayoni
Concept: Neglect of one’s relational dharma produces recurring sorrow and degraded character across births.
Vedantic Theme: Karmic saṃskāras persist; outward speech can mask inner adharma, yet karma bears fruit.
Application: Align inner intention and outward conduct; address relational duties conscientiously and seek ethical counsel when conflicts arise.
Primary Rasa: karuna
Secondary Rasa: bhayanaka
Type: moral/psychological landscape of saṃsāra
Related Themes: Garuda Purana, Pretakalpa karmic retribution patterns: repeated births shaped by specific adharma
This verse frames marital companionship as a dharmic responsibility; neglecting it is presented as generating adverse karmic impressions that echo across rebirths.
By stating “janmajanmani,” it links a specific ethical lapse to repeated suffering and character distortion over many lifetimes, emphasizing continuity of karma beyond one life.
Treat close relationships as ethical commitments: practice honesty, mutual responsibility, and integrity—avoiding merely outward sweetness that hides inner neglect or harm.