Citraketu’s Detachment, Nārada’s Mantra, and the Darśana of Anantadeva
सुखाय दु:खमोक्षाय कुर्वाते दम्पती क्रिया: । ततोऽनिवृत्तिरप्राप्तिर्दु:खस्य च सुखस्य च ॥ ६० ॥
sukhāya duḥkha-mokṣāya kurvāte dampatī kriyāḥ tato ’nivṛttir aprāptir duḥkhasya ca sukhasya ca
ជាប្តីប្រពន្ធ បុរសនិងស្ត្រីរួមគ្នាគ្រោងធ្វើសកម្មភាពជាច្រើន ដើម្បីបានសុខ និងកាត់បន្ថយទុក្ខ; ប៉ុន្តែព្រោះពោរពេញដោយបំណង វាមិនផ្តល់សុខ និងមិនបន្ថយទុក្ខទេ—វិញទៅមកក្លាយជាមូលហេតុនៃទុក្ខធំ។
This verse says that even though spouses work for happiness and freedom from distress through various activities, such efforts do not guarantee lasting happiness nor fully end suffering.
Because material action aims at temporary results; it may rearrange pleasure and pain but cannot uproot the cycle of sukha and duḥkha, which is ended by spiritual realization and bhakti.
Do your responsibilities, but don’t expect them to deliver permanent fulfillment; prioritize bhakti (hearing, chanting, devotion) as the real path to inner freedom.