रावणस्य तर्जनं सीताया धर्मोक्तिः
Ravana’s Threats and Sita’s Dharma-Centered Reply
अकामां कामयानस्य शरीरमुपतप्यते।।5.22.42।।इच्छन्तीं कामयानस्य प्रीतिर्भवति शोभना।
akāmāṃ kāmayānasya śarīram upatapyate |
icchantīṃ kāmayānasya prītir bhavati śobhanā ||
欲する男が欲なき女を追えば、その身はただ苦しむのみ。だが、望む女を追うなら、生じる歓びはまことにふさわしく麗しい。
It states a dharmic norm for desire: coercion against the unwilling yields only suffering and is unfitting; mutual willingness is the proper basis for pleasure.
Dhānyamālinī argues against Rāvaṇa’s forced pursuit of Sītā by contrasting unwillingness with willing consent.
Restraint and discernment in kāma—recognizing that ethical conduct requires respecting another’s will.