Strī Parva, Adhyāya 2 — Vidura’s Consolation on Kāla, Karma, and the Limits of Lamentation (विदुरोपदेशः)
न शोचन् मृतमन्वेति न शोचन् प्रियते नर: । एवं सांसिद्धिके लोके किमर्थमनुशोचसि,शोक करनेवाला मनुष्य न तो मरनेवालेके साथ जा सकता है और न मर ही सकता है। जब लोककी ऐसी ही स्वाभाविक स्थिति है, तब आप किसलिये शोक कर रहे हैं?
na śocan mṛtam anveti na śocan priyate naraḥ | evaṃ sāṃsiddhike loke kim artham anuśocasi ||
Vidura says: A man who grieves does not follow the dead, nor does he himself die by grieving. Since this is the natural order of the world as it stands, why do you continue to lament?
विदुर उवाच
Grief does not change the fact of death: lamentation neither reunites one with the departed nor ends one’s own life. Therefore one should restrain excessive sorrow and face reality with steadiness.
In Strī Parva, amid the aftermath of the Kurukṣetra slaughter, Vidura offers counsel meant to calm and instruct those overwhelmed by bereavement, urging them to move from lamentation toward composure and dharmic reflection.