Aśoka-śāstra: Nārada’s Instruction on the Cessation of Śoka
Grief
परचक्षुषि चात्मानं ये न पश्यन्ति पार्थिव
paracakṣuṣi cātmānaṃ ye na paśyanti pārthiva
हे पार्थिव! जो लोग ‘पर-चक्षु’—अर्थात् दूसरों की दृष्टि में—अपने आत्मस्वरूप को नहीं देखते, जो बाह्य आधारों पर टिके रहते हैं, वे वास्तव में अपने-आपको नहीं जानते।
याज्ञवल्क्य उवाच
True self-knowledge is inward: one must recognize the Ātman directly, not define oneself by external appearances or by how others see and judge.
In Śānti Parva’s instructional setting, the sage Yājñavalkya addresses a king and delivers a reflective teaching on self-perception—warning against mistaking external viewpoints for the reality of the Self.