Dāyavibhāga (Inheritance Apportionment) and Household Precedence — Dialogue of Yudhiṣṭhira and Bhīṣma
आत्माभिप्रेतमुत्सूज्य कन्याभिप्रेत एव यः:
ātmābhipretam utsṛjya kanyābhipreta eva yaḥ
भीष्म ने कहा— जो अपने मन की इच्छा को त्यागकर केवल कन्या की इच्छा के अनुसार आचरण करता है…
भीष्म उवाच
The verse highlights an ethical standard: one should relinquish selfish desire and prioritize the maiden’s own choice/approval, implying respect for her agency and consent in marriage decisions.
In Anuśāsana Parva, Bhīṣma is instructing on dharma. Here he begins describing a type of man whose conduct in marriage is guided not by personal craving but by what the prospective bride herself prefers.