Damayantī’s Proposal of a Witnessed Choice; Nala Reports to the Lokapālas
Adhyāya 53
तयोरदृष्ट: कामो< भूच्छृण्वतो: सतत॑ गुणान् | अन्योन्यं प्रति कौन्तेय स व्यवर्धत हृच्छय:,कुन्तीनन्दन! इस प्रकार निरन्तर एक-दूसरेके गुणोंको सुनते-सुनते उन दोनोंमें बिना देखे ही परस्पर काम (अनुराग) उत्पन्न हो गया। उनकी वह कामना दिन-दिन बढ़ती ही चली गयी
tayor adṛṣṭaḥ kāmo 'bhūc chṛṇvatoḥ satataṁ guṇān | anyonyaṁ prati kaunteya sa vyavardhata hṛcchayaḥ ||
Oh hijo de Kuntī, al escuchar sin cesar los relatos de las virtudes del otro, el amor nació entre ambos aun sin haberse visto. Y ese anhelo nacido del corazón fue creciendo con firmeza, día tras día, a medida que la admiración mutua se volvía apego.
बृहृदश्चव उवाच
The verse highlights how sustained attention to another’s virtues can generate powerful attachment even without direct contact. Ethically, it suggests that reputation and repeated hearing shape the mind and emotions; therefore one should be mindful of what one repeatedly listens to and how admiration can mature into desire.
Bṛhadaśva tells Yudhiṣṭhira that two people, though not yet seeing each other, keep hearing about one another’s good qualities. Through this continual exchange of praise, mutual love arises and then steadily intensifies.