एकोनचत्वारिंशः सर्गः — Dasaratha’s Lament, Sumantra’s Commission, and Sita’s Vow of Marital Dharma
न त्वेवानागते काले देहाच्च्यवति जीवितम्।कैकेय्या क्लिश्यमानस्य मृत्युर्मम न विद्यते।।2.39.5।।योऽहं पावकसङ्काशं पश्यामि पुरतः स्थितम्।विहाय वसने सूक्ष्मे तापसाच्छादमात्मजम्।।2.39.6।।
saṃvāsāt paruṣaṃ kiñcid ajñānād vāpi yat kṛtam | tan me samanujānīta sarvāś cāmantrayāmi vaḥ || 2.39.38 ||
“If I have done anything at all harsh—whether through our long familiarity or through ignorance—please forgive me. Now I take leave of you all.”
Unless the destined hour arrives, life does not leave the body. Therefore, even though I am tormented by Kaikeyi and even after seeing my son, standing before me, (bright) like fire, taking off his fine clothes and wearing the robes of an ascetic my end does not come.
Kṣamā (seeking and granting forgiveness) and maryādā (courteous restraint): before departing for exile, Rāma cleanses relationships by requesting pardon for any unintended hurt.
On the eve of leaving Ayodhyā for exile, Rāma respectfully addresses the women of the palace, asking forgiveness and taking formal leave.
Humility and empathy—Rāma assumes responsibility for possible pain caused by closeness or ignorance and seeks reconciliation.