Shloka 85
देवतापितृप्रश्नः — Nārada at Badarīāśrama: the ultimate referent of daiva and pitṛ worship
मातापितृसहस््राणि पुत्रदारशतानि च । अनागतान्यतीतानि कस्य ते कस्य वा वयम्,हजारों माता-पिता और सैकड़ों स्त्री-पुत्र पहले जन्मोंमें हो चुके हैं और भविष्यमें होंगे। वे हममेंसे किसके हैं और हम उनमेंसे किसके हैं?
mātāpitr̥sahasrāṇi putradāraśatāni ca | anāgatānyatītāni kasya te kasya vā vayam ||
Vyāsa said: “Thousands of mothers and fathers, and hundreds of sons and wives, have belonged to us in lives already past—and will do so again in lives yet to come. Of whom, then, are they truly ‘ours’? And of whom are we truly ‘theirs’?”
व्यास उवाच
Educational Q&A
The verse undermines possessiveness and grief rooted in family-identity by pointing to saṃsāra: across countless births, one has had innumerable parents, spouses, and children. Therefore, clinging to “mine” and “yours” is ethically misguided; one should act with dharma while cultivating detachment.
In Śānti Parva’s instruction on right understanding after the war, Vyāsa speaks in a reflective, philosophical register, reminding the listener that worldly relations recur and change across past and future lives, so one should not be overwhelmed by attachment-based sorrow or pride.