An exposition of varṇa-dharma as taught by Yājñavalkya
हास्यं परगृहे यानं त्यजेत्प्रेषितभर्तृका / रक्षेत्कन्यां पिता बाल्ये यौवने पतिरेव ताम्
hāsyaṃ paragṛhe yānaṃ tyajetpreṣitabhartṛkā / rakṣetkanyāṃ pitā bālye yauvane patireva tām
A woman whose husband is away should avoid joking and visiting other households. A daughter should be protected by her father in childhood, and in youth by her husband alone.
Lord Vishnu (in instruction to Garuda)
Concept: Protective restraint (saṃyama) and guardianship (rakṣaṇa) as means to preserve family honor and social stability.
Vedantic Theme: Regulation of conduct to reduce rajas/tamas and prevent adharma-producing entanglements.
Application: When a spouse is away, maintain transparent, safe social interactions; families ensure minors’ safety and well-being through responsible guardianship.
Primary Rasa: bhayanaka
Secondary Rasa: shanta
Type: household/other households (paragṛha)
Related Themes: Garuda Purana 1.95 (strī-dharma and guardianship rules)
This verse frames dharma as disciplined behavior that protects personal reputation, family stability, and social order—especially within the gṛhastha (householder) context.
Indirectly: by emphasizing dharmic restraint and protection of virtue, it supports the broader Garuda Purana theme that ethical conduct shapes karmic outcomes after death.
Maintain clear boundaries, avoid situations that invite suspicion or harm, and ensure responsible guardianship and support for dependents according to life stage.