प्रियो यस्य स तं गच्छेदित्याश्रयगतिः परा ॥ कZ_०७.२.२५च्द् ॥
priyo yasya sa taṃ gacched ity āśrayagatiḥ parā
The superior rule of seeking protection is: one should go to him to whom one is dear.
Because the protector’s incentive to defend you matters more than your preference; protection depends on the patron’s commitment and perceived value of you.