Shloka 21
Udyoga-parva Adhyāya 71 — Kṣatra-dharma Counsel, Public Legitimacy, and Mobilization
एतच्च मरणं तात यन्मत्त: पतितादिव । ज्ञातयो विनिवर्तन्ते प्रेतसत््वादिवासव:,तात! जैसे पतित मनुष्यके निकटसे लोग दूर भागते हैं और जैसे मृत शरीरसे प्राण निकल जाते हैं, उसी प्रकार मेरे कुटुम्बीजन भी जो मुझसे मुँह मोड़ रहे हैं, यही मेरे लिये मरण है
etac ca maraṇaṃ tāta yan mattaḥ patitād iva | jñātayo vinivartante pretasattvād ivāsavaḥ ||
孩子啊，这对我而言便是死亡：我的至亲竟转身离我而去，正如人们见到倒下之人便退避，正如生命之息离开无生之躯。他们的退却与不肯与我并肩，在我心中宛如生命本身的消逝。
युधिछिर उवाच
Educational Q&A
The verse frames social and familial abandonment as a form of living death: for a dharmic person, the loss of kinship support and recognition can feel as devastating as physical death, highlighting the ethical weight of loyalty, solidarity, and responsibility within the family.
Yudhiṣṭhira speaks in distress during the Udyoga Parva’s pre-war negotiations and tensions, expressing that his relatives’ turning away from him—treating him like someone fallen or untouchable—feels like death itself, signaling the deep rupture within the Kuru family.