Vidura-nīti: Atithi-dharma, Trust, Counsel-Secrecy, and Traits of Sustainable Rule
Udyoga Parva, Adhyāya 38
ज्ञातयस्तारयन्तीह ज्ञातयो मज्जयन्ति च | सुवृत्तास्तारयन्तीह दुर्वत्ता मज्जयन्ति च,इस जगत्में जाति-भाई ही तारते और जाति-भाई ही डुबाते भी हैं। उनमें जो सदाचारी हैं, वे तो तारते हैं और दुराचारी डुबा देते हैं
jñātayas tārayantīha jñātayo majjayanti ca | suvṛttās tārayantīha durvattā majjayanti ca ||
毗度罗说:在这世间,能使人渡过险难的,正是自己的宗亲;而使人沉沦的,也往往还是这些宗亲。品行端正的亲族成为救助与依靠;行止败坏的亲族则成为覆亡之因。
विदुर उवाच
Family ties are powerful but morally neutral: the same circle of relatives can become one’s protection or one’s downfall. Therefore, the decisive factor is character—virtuous conduct uplifts, corrupt conduct destroys.
In the Udyoga Parva, Vidura offers ethical counsel during the tense pre-war negotiations. He warns that the fate of a person (and a dynasty) is shaped by the conduct of its own members—good relatives support and rescue, while wicked relatives drag one into disaster.