Chapter 81: Trust, Allies, and the Qualifications of the King’s Artha-Secretary (अर्थसचिव)
व्यसनान्नित्यभीतो यः समृद्धया यो न दुष्यति । यत् स्यादेवंविध॑ मित्र तदात्मसममुच्यते
vyasanān nityabhīto yaḥ samṛddhyā yo na duṣyati | yat syād evaṃvidhaṃ mitra tad ātmasamam ucyate ||
毗湿摩说道:那位朋友,常为你可能遭逢的灾厄而忧惧;见你兴盛亦不为嫉妒所染——如此之友,被宣称与自身无异。
भीष्म उवाच
A true friend is defined by two tests: sincere concern for your potential suffering and freedom from jealousy at your success. Such steadiness of goodwill makes the friend ‘like one’s own self’ (ātmasama).
In Shanti Parva, Bhishma instructs Yudhishthira on dharma and right conduct. Here he characterizes the marks of an ideal friend, emphasizing loyalty in adversity and purity of heart in times of prosperity.