Aśoka-śāstra: Nārada’s Instruction on the Cessation of Śoka
Grief
परचक्षुषि चात्मानं ये न पश्यन्ति पार्थिव
paracakṣuṣi cātmānaṃ ye na paśyanti pārthiva
阎若伐迦言:“大王啊,那些不能在‘由他人之眼所见’之中体认自我(我、Ātman)者——亦即只在外界的评判与形相中寻觅身份者——实未真知其身。”
याज्ञवल्क्य उवाच
True self-knowledge is inward: one must recognize the Ātman directly, not define oneself by external appearances or by how others see and judge.
In Śānti Parva’s instructional setting, the sage Yājñavalkya addresses a king and delivers a reflective teaching on self-perception—warning against mistaking external viewpoints for the reality of the Self.