Dama-pradhāna-dharma (Self-restraint as the Root of Dharma) — Śānti-parva 154
शोचन्तस्तस्य पूर्वोक्तान् भाषितांश्वासकृत् पुन: । तं बाल॑ भूतले क्षिप्य प्रतिगन्तुं न शकनुयु:
śocantastasya pūrvoktān bhāṣitān śvāsakṛt punaḥ | taṃ bālaṃ bhūtale kṣipya pratigantuṃ na śaknu yuḥ ||
他们悲恸不已,气息哽咽,一遍又一遍回想那孩子生前说过的话。因此,即使已将孩子放在火葬地的地面上,他们仍无法转身离去——被怜爱与追忆牢牢牵系。
भीष्म उवाच
The verse highlights how remembrance and compassion can overpower mere ritual completion: grief makes people linger, unable to detach even after performing the outward act. It implicitly points to the ethical depth of human bonds and the difficulty of letting go.
Bhīṣma describes mourners who, repeatedly recalling the child’s earlier words, become overwhelmed with sorrow. Even after placing the child down on the ground (understood in context as the cremation-ground setting), they cannot bring themselves to return home.