An exposition of varṇa-dharma as taught by Yājñavalkya
यत्राविरोधो दम्पत्योस्त्रिवर्गस्तत्त्र वर्धते / मृते जीवति या पत्यौ या नान्यमुपगच्छति
yatrāvirodho dampatyostrivargastattra vardhate / mṛte jīvati yā patyau yā nānyamupagacchati
夫妻和睦之处,人生的三大目标——法(Dharma)、利(Artha)和欲(Kama)——便会兴盛。无论丈夫在世或已故,不跟随其他男子的女子被称为贞洁之妇。
Lord Vishnu (in dialogue with Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Concept: Dampatyoḥ avirodha (spousal concord) nourishes dharma-artha-kāma; fidelity (ananya-upagamana) defines pativratā ideal.
Vedantic Theme: Harmony and restraint reduce rajas/tamas, supporting sattva and inner peace; ethical life as groundwork for higher pursuit.
Application: Cultivate communication, trust, and shared goals; interpret fidelity as mutual commitment and integrity, including emotional and ethical faithfulness.
Primary Rasa: shanta
Secondary Rasa: shringara
Type: household
Related Themes: Garuda Purana 1.95.18 (social response to vyabhicāra); Garuda Purana 1.95.21 (maintenance duty)
This verse states that when husband and wife live without conflict, the three human aims—dharma, artha, and kāma—naturally prosper in that household.
It frames household life as a foundation for dharma: concord between spouses sustains righteous living and supports prosperity and legitimate enjoyment within ethical bounds.
Cultivate mutual respect and conflict-resolution in marriage; a harmonious home strengthens ethical decisions, financial stability, and emotional well-being.