आत्माभिप्रेतमुत्सूज्य कन्याभिप्रेत एव यः:
ātmābhipretam utsṛjya kanyābhipreta eva yaḥ
بھیشم نے کہا— جو اپنی خواہش کو ترک کر کے صرف لڑکی کی رضا کے مطابق عمل کرے…
भीष्म उवाच
The verse highlights an ethical standard: one should relinquish selfish desire and prioritize the maiden’s own choice/approval, implying respect for her agency and consent in marriage decisions.
In Anuśāsana Parva, Bhīṣma is instructing on dharma. Here he begins describing a type of man whose conduct in marriage is guided not by personal craving but by what the prospective bride herself prefers.