Dharma–Adharma Marks; Daśāha, Piṇḍa Formation, Śrāddha Calendar, Śayyā-dāna, and Sapiṇḍīkaraṇa Rules
उपकाराय सा भर्तुर्जीवन्ती न मृता तथा / उद्धरेज्जीवमाना सा सती सत्यवती प्रियम्
upakārāya sā bharturjīvantī na mṛtā tathā / uddharejjīvamānā sā satī satyavatī priyam
شوہر کے فائدے کے لیے وہ زندہ رہے، مر نہ جائے؛ زندہ رہتے ہوئے وہ ستی، سچّی بیوی اپنے محبوب کا اُدھّار کرے۔
Lord Vishnu (in discourse to Garuda)
Concept: For the husband’s benefit, the wife should remain alive; as a satī (faithful) and satyavatī (truthful), she should uplift her beloved through living action.
Vedantic Theme: Dharma as compassionate agency; rejection of self-destruction in favor of purposeful duty and inner steadiness.
Application: In bereavement, choose life, fulfill responsibilities, perform śrāddha/dāna, and maintain truthful, stabilizing conduct for family and the departed’s remembrance.
Primary Rasa: shanta
Secondary Rasa: karuna
Type: household/social sphere (implied)
Related Themes: Garuda Purana 2.34.90 (wife’s rites for husband); Garuda Purana śrāddha sections emphasizing the living’s role in preta-upakāra
This verse emphasizes dharmic support: a virtuous wife benefits her husband through living conduct—truthfulness, care, and protective action—rather than self-destruction.
In the Preta Kanda’s discussion of death and post-death consequences, the text also instructs the living on righteous behavior; here it frames virtue and truth as practical supports that uplift family destiny.
Choose life-affirming dharma: act with truthfulness, steadiness, and care for loved ones—supporting family wellbeing through ethical conduct rather than harmful extremes.