Nīti-saṅgraha: Conduct, Association, Kali-yuga Decline, and the Supremacy of Vidyā
तत्र मुक्तादरस्नेहो विलुप्तं यत्र सौहृदम् / तदेव केवलं श्लघ्यं यस्यात्मा क्रियते स्तुतौ
tatra muktādarasneho viluptaṃ yatra sauhṛdam / tadeva kevalaṃ ślaghyaṃ yasyātmā kriyate stutau
جہاں احترام اور محبت اٹھا لی گئی ہو اور جہاں دوستی مٹ چکی ہو—حقیقت میں قابلِ ستائش صرف وہی ہے جس میں تعریف کے وقت اپنی ذات کو موضوعِ مدح نہ بنایا جائے۔
Lord Viṣṇu (in instruction to Garuḍa/Vinata-putra)
Concept: When respect/affection and friendship vanish, genuine worth lies in actions where the self is not set up for praise—humility and self-effacement.
Vedantic Theme: Ahamkara-tyaga; karma done without self-glorification (nishkama tendency).
Application: Do good quietly; avoid self-promotion; repair relationships by restoring respect and warmth; practice gratitude and credit-sharing.
Primary Rasa: shanta
Secondary Rasa: karuna
Related Themes: Garuda Purana niti: warnings against pride and hollow social bonds
This verse states that what is truly commendable is conduct free from self-praise—especially where respect and friendship have declined—highlighting humility as a core dharmic virtue.
Indirectly, it points to inner purification: reducing ego and self-glorification strengthens dharmic character, which supports better karmic outcomes and spiritual progress.
Avoid boasting and seeking validation; choose actions that remain worthy even without applause, and protect relationships through respect and genuine goodwill.