Nīti on Friendship (Mitra), Discretion, Restraint, Health-Regimens, Prosperity (Śrī), and Family Dharma
अप्रार्थितानि दुः खानि यथैवायान्ति यान्ति च / मार्जार इव लुम्पेत तथा प्रार्थयितार नरः
aprārthitāni duḥ khāni yathaivāyānti yānti ca / mārjāra iva lumpeta tathā prārthayitāra naraḥ
بے مانگے دکھ جیسے خود آتے ہیں ویسے ہی خود چلے بھی جاتے ہیں۔ مگر جو آدمی مانگتا پھرتا ہے، اسے بلی کی طرح لوٹ لیا جاتا ہے۔
Lord Vishnu (speaking to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Concept: Sufferings arise unbidden and pass; but habitual solicitation/begging for gains makes one vulnerable to being ‘plundered’—loss of dignity and exploitation.
Vedantic Theme: Karma and impermanence (duḥkha’s coming/going) with vairāgya; self-reliance aligned with dharmic livelihood.
Application: Avoid manipulative dependency; earn through rightful means; accept unavoidable hardship without panic; reduce craving-driven requests that compromise integrity.
Primary Rasa: shanta
Secondary Rasa: bibhatsa
Related Themes: Garuda Purana 1.114.53 (noble vs ignoble conduct and prosperity)
This verse teaches that suffering can arise without invitation, but lowering oneself to constant solicitation invites exploitation; dharmic living emphasizes dignity, restraint, and inner steadiness.
By discouraging grasping and dependency, it points toward reducing attachment and karmic entanglements—qualities that support a steadier mind and a cleaner trajectory in the soul’s journey.
Accept unavoidable hardships with patience, avoid manipulative asking or dependency for gain, and build livelihood and relationships on dignity, effort, and ethical boundaries.